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Not Impossible: Be a Great Mom and a Great Worker

When you become a mom, finding a life-work balance can be very difficult. You need to be fully committed to your child and yet, still be effective at work. But, while many believe it is impossible for working moms to be great at what they do, studies have shown that motherhood makes them more equipped to handle work, to say the least.

Of course, the barriers are still present. ‘’There’s the issue of childcare which will prevent you to work late or take extra hours. You will probably have to take a couple of sick days when your child needs you, and leaving the child alone isn’t as easy on its own, either. ‘’ – says Rebecca Torres, a full-time writer at EssaysOnTime and a mother of three.

Being fully committed to two things can be time-consuming and exhausting, but there are ways to improve your life and excel in both without pushing yourself to the limit. Working mothers might have it hard, but this isn’t impossible. These tips will help you find a balance between work and motherhood.

1. Stop with the Guilt

One of the biggest issues of working mothers is the feeling of guilt. Leaving your children to work is perfectly normal and in fact, it is the thing you must do to provide for them. The time when fathers went out to provide for an entire family is long gone and with it – all those sexist stereotypes about work-moms.

So, why do you keep feeling like you are abandoning your child every time you leave the house to go to work? Being a mom does not make you anything less than a professional or a capable employee. In fact, juggling both a career and a family with children is something to be proud of. If you stop with all that guilt and do it proudly, people will admire your strength.

2. Get Some Tricks under Your Sleeve

There are so many ways to trick time, so why not use them to get some balance between life and work? Being a mom and a career woman allows you to do this, so learn some time-saving tricks to get things done during the days.

Plan strategically and use all the shortcuts you can get. There are plenty of things that can help you save time, even if it is by a little. Little by little, you’ll get more time to finish your professional and personal obligations.

Whatever you need, think of a time-saving option for getting it. Order the groceries online, get things delivered to your house, schedule online meetings instead of driving around town, prepare your lunches the nights before, etc.

Basically, the trick is to get organized. Tricking time is simple if you have a plan and you stick to it.

3. Find Good Childcare Options

Explore the childcare options to find ones that are safe and work well for you. Knowing that your child is taken care of will help you focus at work. If you hire just anyone or are uncertain of their qualifications, you’ll end up thinking about your children at home when you need to focus on an important task at work.

When the time for work comes, it is time to have a barrier. Having someone you trust take care of your children will help you set that barrier. The more focused you are at work, the faster and more effective you will be. Good work will get you home on time and without the stress. Isn’t this what you want?

4. Keep Open Communication with Your Employer

If you fail to communicate your needs and abilities as a working mom, you can only cause troubles for yourself and your work. Keep open communication with your manager or employer. Don’t lie to them. Share with them your availability and make sure that they know how committed you are to your work, but also that you are a mother with parental responsibilities.

Being open with your employer is the only way to effectively work while being a mother. At some point, you might need to leave work to pick up your child or take a sick day to take care of your child. If you are open and honest about it, the employer will be more understanding.

5. Get Rid of the Time-Wasters

When you have to juggle work and family, there’s no time for distractions. Your best shot at getting both done is to get rid of everything else that isn’t important and only wastes your time. Such things include surfing the internet and chatting on social media, spending hours on the phone or in front of the TV.

Of course, this does not mean that your hobbies should cease and you should never have some fun. It just means that you need to get the most out of your day and finish your tasks, so that you are able to get some ‘you’ time when you need it.

While work is mostly professional and rarely fun, family time can be interesting. Make the time spent with the family count and have fun in the process. In this way, you’ll be taking care of your family and having some fun at the same time.

6. Delegate

You might be very strong and dedicated, but no one can do everything without a little bit of help. This is the time to learn to delegate. Whenever possible, delegate your tasks at work and most importantly, share your housework. The entire burden should not fall solely on you. Times have changed and at this point, both parents go to work in most families. This means that the housework is the job of everyone who lives in it.

Give some tasks to your partner and to your older children. You will teach everyone good habits and get things done faster.

Working moms can and do have both – a happy family life and a successful career. This might be hard at first, but with the right approach and persistence, it is more than possible.

Jacob Dillon
Jacob Dillon is a professional writer and distinctive journalist from Sydney. Being passionate about what he does, Jacob likes to discuss stirring events as well as express his opinion about technological advancements and evolution of society. Find Jacob on Twitter and Facebook.